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The Velveteen Rabbit

Book · 1922 · Margery Williams; illustrated by William Nicholson

'Real isn't how you are made. It's a thing that happens to you.' The Skin Horse did not have to go that hard. 🐰

Who it's for

The Skin Horse's explanation of what makes a toy Real is one of the most quoted passages in children's literature because it reframes wear and damage as evidence of love.

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What it is

A velveteen rabbit is given to a young boy as a Christmas present. The Skin Horse, the oldest toy in the nursery, explains that toys become Real through a child's love, and the rabbit eventually becomes the boy's cherished companion. When the boy falls ill with scarlet fever, the rabbit is set to be discarded, and a nursery fairy intervenes.

Where to find it

Public domain in the US (published 1922); free on Project Gutenberg. Many illustrated editions in print and free audio readings (e.g., LibriVox).

Before you start

Heads up: A child's serious illness and loss.

Age: All ages

The stars are not afraid to appear like fireflies.Rabindranath Tagore, Stray Birds, no. 48

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